How Love Improves Your Health and Impacts Your Life

Impacts of love in health Improvement

1.Love produces positive emotions.

Love is known to bring many positive emotions. Laughter is one of those emotions. Laughter is known to be good for your mental well-being and healing to the soul.

“laughter is the best medicine.”

Laughter is a very powerful antidote to fight, conflict, stress, and pain both mentally and physically. Love also has the power to heal and regenerate  people mental, emotional and physical well being. Research shows that love neutralizes the kind of negative emotions that adversely affect the immune, endocrine, and cardiovascular function.

2.Healthy Heart:

Researches show that those who are involved in good, strong and happy relationships have a lower risk of cardiovascular disease compared to those who are in bad relationships or tend to feel lonely more often. In the study of Brigham Young University, it is found that people in happy relationships had blood pressure readings four points lower than those of singles and unhappily married couples. Studies also show that happily married men in love have 50 percent less chance of angina, and women in love are known to have a lower risk for a cardiovascular disease which is quite impressive.      

3.Betters immune system

Those who have a loving relationship tends to recover more quickly from an illness. The feeling of love can help to rejuvenate and support your life-enhancing immunity system and fight with harmful bacteria that can further increase overall body immunity.  Studies have found that people in loving and happy relationships are less likely to have increased levels of inflammation and more to have a stronger overall immune system. Feeling loved, cared and secure tends to increase the immunity of the immune system and reduce the chance of catching a cold or other viral infection.

4.Good mental health

High amounts of stress can lead to several mental issues, such as Anxiety,  depression. Having someone in your life who love you unconditionally and release tension is a huge factor in decreasing the risk of mental problems. Love also decreases anxiety and feeling of depression, which subsequently reduces the signs and symptoms of heart disease. Healthy relationships, falling in love and getting married, as well as friendships, have been shown to reduce the feelings of isolation and depression.

5.Improves Your Sleep

Loving and happy relationships lead to less stress, further you are more likely to have good sleep and when you wake in the morning you feel refreshed. Tensions feel small when you are loved and supported by your partner. Researchers found that happily married couples are 10% more likely to have a more restful sleep. Studies have linked the good sleep benefits to the feel-good hormone oxytocin. According to research from the University of Utah. In the study, 34 couples were tested for the stress hormone cortisol before, during and after they were separated for several days. Results showed the couples were more stressed while separated, which affected their sleep quality.


Ways to Maintain a Work-Life Balance in a relationship

When you love your career path and your partner both then finding a work-life balance can be tricky. Success in both your personal and professional life is a struggle which many of the people are facing nowadays, but when it comes to putting your ambitions and love life on the same balanced scale, the choice of which one deserves your attention most is often one of the difficult decision.

1. Set boundaries

Whether it’s the time you both leave the office, or how often you work from home, make sure you communicate with each other clearly and set expectations about how your career is important to both of you.

Career-oriented couples often enjoy working, but setting boundaries allow you to also enjoy each other.

2. Prioritize your health

Being physically fit would increase your tolerance to stress and reduces sick days. Eat right, exercise and get adequate rest. Don’t rely on alcohol or drugs to deal with stress; they’ll only lead to more problems.

“Prioritizing your health first and foremost will make you a better employee and person,”

3. Love the person, not their title

For a healthy relationship, make sure you have fallen in love with your partner as a person he/she is, and not with their position or title.Nowadays, nothing is certain, and compatibility is no longer based on whether or not the other person can take care of you. Instead of that, know that you can take care of yourself, and decide if you still want your partner around.

4. Carve time out for each other

It is very much important to create regular time to spend together. Maybe you make special moments like you exercise every Sundays together. You can also try scheduling a date night for every mid of the week that can’t be rescheduled. The point is to find quality time together to look forward to.

5. Show unconditional support towards Each other

It can be difficult to show interest in your partner’s career after your own long day of work. But it’s important that you are thoughtful and present in most of the conversations relating to your partner’s career, and that your support is unconditional toward their work which can further lead to make a good understanding and healthy relationship.

HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP ?

It’s common to assume some level of trust in a new relationship but sometimes that trust is misplaced or misunderstood. Before you can build trust, you have to understand what it means to you and your partner. Take the time to understand what your partner is looking for in a relationship and make sure your needs are also expressed. When you begin there, building trust becomes much easier. To help you take the next steps.

Earn your trust:

Trust is not a thing that readily available in any relationship. You need to earn it by taking care of your behavior and actions. When we stop taking trust for granted and make it a priority, we will be conscious of our actions and the perceptions of those actions to our partner.

Clear your doubts:

If you have any doubts about your relationship talk to your partner about them instead of hesitating to ask them.

Forgive each other:

 

when your spouse owns up his/her mistake, be humble enough to forgive. Don’t hold on to past fights, let go, accept, and make the most of ‘now’. Trusting each other doesn’t mean mistakes won’t happen ever but if it happens to be forgiving. Letting go of the mistakes, accepting the apology and moving on builds a trust based on truth and love

Listen actively:

 

When your spouse is talking to you, listen actively and without judging. They will also listen to you when you talk. This habit lays the foundation for establishing trust

Communicate transparently:

Talk openly and honestly and make sure that you discuss important things in person instead of texting or talking on the phone. Messages can be misinterpreted. Talking face-to-face is easier as you can understand each other’s intentions, emotions, and body language. Effective communication is an important element in building trust

Keep your promises:

When you make a promise make sure you stick to it. Don’t make promises just for the sake of keeping your partner happy because breaking a promise is one the easiest ways to breach trust. Keep your promises about little things as important as you keep your promises about the big things

Show interest:

Know your partner’s tastes and hobbies. Show your genuine interest by being inquisitive, ask questions, and learn from them. If your spouse gets the vibes of your sincerity, you will earn their trust.

Admit your mistakes:

 

It’s natural to make mistakes, but owning them is not easy. The first thing on your agenda of building trust is to admit your mistakes. Don’t try to cover up your mistakes; the situation becomes messier if you do so. Repentance shows that you want to build trust.

 

Judge less love more:

Don’t criticize or judge your partner. Instead, put forth your opinions in a constructive way with the intention of helping your partner grow. Respect each other’s differences without judging. Before you can trust, you must respect each other and your differences without judgment.

Support each other:

 

Being supportive is a given in any relationship. When you support your partner, they would want to try new things and are not hesitant to take up risks because they know that they can fall back on you for support.

Tips to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work

Many people say that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Some of your best friends may advise and Your family may demoralize it, do not to take it too seriously, because they think that you might be ending up with a broken heart. Nobody actually says that it is going to be easy — as I have read somewhere that “the extra distance makes many things unachievable” so why not is a relationship. So here are some tips which I think you should try to implement in your long-distance relationship to work.

Focus on quality communication

It has been proved in some of the surveys that long-distance couple may be more satisfied that the other couples. This is because may to the couple how are in long-distance relation actually know that

That can spend quality time rather than wasting time on having day-to-day logistics. If you are in a long-distance relationship, you lack the ability to have lots of communication as compared to couples that are together in close, but you can exceed them when it comes to quality. If you have daily bedtime conversations, you can give a little to talk about the most important parts of your day. Realize that since you may not have the benefit of physical touch and facial expression, you’ll sometimes need to have more deliberate in the words you use in daily routine. You can plan Skype session to make sure you say the things you have to say to your partner. That can help you make sure, intimacy-building conversations are still being had, no matter how many states separate you.

Do things together.

Even If your partner is far off, you can find ways to enjoy your common interests. Schedule date nights where you plan to “share” a meal and movie, and enjoy long conversations. For example, maybe you can watch a favorite show or movie at the same time while talking on the Mobile phone or texting. There are a lot of games you could play together online and enjoy the time with your partner. By this, you can continue to feel connected as a couple, even though you may be far apart.

“A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality”

Create trust

 

Trust is the backbone of any relationship. If your faith in him/her and what they do, then you trust them enough to commit yourself, your feelings, and the relationship to them. Being loyal will make you feel confident and secure in most of the things within your relationship. Your partner may get hurt hearing the truth from you but that’s better than hearing lies that would hurt them, even more, knowing that the one they love and trust lied to them.

Support your partner, even over the distance.

Be there for your partner if your partner is ever in the problem, hurt, or for whatever reason. You need to make yourself available to help so your partner knows you care. If your partner ends up dealing with important issues alone, your partner will eventually not need you.  Interrelationship refers to the compliance to act against your own self-interest for the benefit of your partner or for your relationship. Instead, supporting each other creates an Interrelationship that is crucial for a long distance relationship.

Tips to enhance mutual understanding with your partner

We all knew that all the couples went through some arguments at some point in time, but there are many ways out there to handle your problems. The way you choose shows the mutual understanding between you and your partner. Today MU has become a huge problem for couples. I think this is all that depends on our patience level and how well we know our partner. Sometimes it is better to avoid some topic that may end up having arguments. You can take a positive approach to avoid these situations.

Well, sometime you should take a step back or sometime your partner that is exactly what mutual understanding stand level you have. If you have great MU then you can solve the problem by not arguing also. So here I am going to share some tips which think can help you to foster your mutual understanding.

Think before you speak

This is good practice not only for mutual understanding but also for good relationships. By doing this you may be able to communicate effectively with your partner. It’s not all about winning an argument but it is about telling your concerns in a good way so that your partner can also understand it. Try to be focused and clear on your thoughts, so that he/she can effectively understand what you are trying to say.

Accepting each other’s flaws

 

The very first thing that one is perfect in this world. Each one of us has the flaw which we don’t want to discuss or accept in front of others. We always try to hide our mistakes by pointing at others. I know it is sometimes difficult to accept your flaws in front of your partner. But in a great relationship couple should accept each other’s flaws and try to acknowledge them. Personally, I feel when you both start admitting your imperfections (I know it is the bit difficult ) and keep your patience level high then you can have a more mutual understanding with your partner.

 

Taking a Step Back To Calm Down

Sometime when you are going through emotional situations

you may feel low and you will not be able to focus. So it is good practice to put yourself on a hold for a minute and relax for some time then only you will be able to understand what your partner is trying to tell you. Maybe to can just close your eyes for some time and start counting. Make yourself ready for listening openly to your partner’s feeling without passing an immediate judgment on the same.

 

Being Real and Transparent

When you are new to a relationship you may sometime try to hide things from your partner, this may be you are not comfortable to tell your partner at that moment of time. Well, think about it if you try to hide thing this reflects that you don’t trust your partner or you’re loyal to that person. In future when your partner will get to know about these little things from outside he/she may feel bad about it. Well, transparency is not about hiding things. This means that you are doing things in the dark that you are not able to do in the light. There is a difference between privacy and transparency. All that matters is the boundaries you set to keep secrets.

Love Life Insucurities

Insecurity is an inner feeling unsecured. We’ve all went through this feeling at least one time or another. But while it’s normal to have feelings insecure once in a while, insecurity can destroy your success in life and damage to your intimate relationships too.

Don’t Compare current relationships with past ones

Never try to compare your current relationships, as this is the worst thing which you can do to feel insecure in the healthy relationship. Because sometimes you feel that you are going through the same situation which happened earlier, so you just start assuming thing based on your past experiences which are pretty unfair because it doesn’t mean that if someone treated you badly in past will happen again. so you can not judge your partner based on your past experiences.

Stop thinking it is all about you

Some time in relations it happens when your partner does not feel like going out with you, don’t imagine it is because you may he is feeling low or has a bad day at the office. So rather than making assumptions try to understand his situation. Just try to make him feel good as ask him “what are you thinking, is everything alright.”

 

Be independent

A healthy relationship starts with two healthy people. In a relationship taking care of your needs for your personal well-being are must to maintain balance in a relationship. you can feel more secure about your life When you don’t depend on your relationship to fill all of your basic needs. You can spend time with your friends. You can maintain your independence: like taking out time for your own friends, hobbies,  and interests, maintaining financial independence. So I other words you can simply take some time for yourself rather be dependent on your partner.

Stop Being Right Or Wrong.

 

How do you can feel when someone blames you for something that is not your fault? Obviously, you will try to defend yourself. In the same way, Tackling your partner over a problem When you do n’t even know how obvious it may be to you, can cause your partner to be defensive. As a result instead of solving conflicts, you try to prove yourself right in front of your partner. It is better to solve the problem in that situation. There is something which you don’t find the correct wait for the right moment to have a proper conversation.  Tell your partner neither of you is fully “right” or “wrong.” We can find the missing link between us.